Question 1

How do I choose the right mohel?

Accepted Answer

Short answer: Look for training, experience, hygiene practices, references, and a willing pre-visit conversation.

Expanded: If necessary, ask for references of parents and/or members of your congregation, independent reviews, confirm medical knowledge and sterilization procedures, request to meet or speak before the ceremony, and choose someone whose values and methods you trust (halachic approach, metzitzah practice, pain management). Your community, family, and friends often provide reliable referrals. Ask for my references anytime.

Question 2

Should I ask the mohel for references or testimonials?

Accepted Answer

Short answer: Yes — professionalism, testimonials, references, and a willingness to explain methods are positive signs.

Expanded: Ask for recent references and check public reviews. Look for the mohel's website for signs of organization, professional behavior, and established practice. A trustworthy mohel will welcome questions about technique, safety, and follow-up, and should provide contactable references or published testimonials. If privacy is a concern, ask for anonymized testimonials.

Question 3

Do I need a hospital mohel or can it be done at home?

Accepted Answer

Short answer: Both are possible; choose based on professionalism and family preferences.

Expanded: Hospital Mohalim are not that trustworthy, they're looking for the next "client". All Mohalim can easily perform Britot at home, in synagogues, and even in restaurants. High-risk babies are the only ones that should be circumcised in a hospital setting. A competent mohel will assess your baby’s condition and advise the safest location, and it's important to notice that serious Mohalim don't usually agree with a Bris in a Messianic congregation.

Q&A with the Messianic Mohel – Safe, Caring Brit Milah Guidance